Advice
Don't let them see you sweat. One thing I got knocked for in my review was the fact that everyone felt like I was too hard on myself. I don't really understand how you can ding someone for that- especially when I already have to work twice, three times as hard as my white male counterparts. I wish the people who gave me this critique knew how many nights I'd come in the office after I got off of my other part-time job and spend hours there working, until it turned 3 and 4 o'clock in the morning. Not getting paid for any of these nights or weekends- and not really wanting to either. I just wanted to deliver quality work, and did what I had to, in order to do that. I am generally not a very pessimistic person, but I do recall a few times I had outwardly chastised myself for not knowing something, or messing something up. If I could go back, I would have kept these instances to myself and never let anyone hear me criticize myself. I work to hard not to be critical, but moving forward in life and my career, I will definitely keep it to myself since it apparently makes people view you in a negative light.